The Amish People are associated with a simple lifestyle, horse-drawn carriages and homes filled with the flickering light of lanterns and candles. They are also recognized for their deep religious adherence to conservative Christian values, pacifism and avoid many of the modern vices in today’s society. That’s why a murder in the Amish community is so shocking.

In June 2009, Barbara Weaver, a devout member of the Old Amish church and mother of 5, was fatally shot while sleeping in her bed in Apple Creek, Ohio. Without evidence of forced entry and several other clues, Barbara’s husband Eli was a primary suspect of the criminal investigation. It was unthinkable to consider Eli committed the crime because of its cold blooded nature. After all, he would be one of only three Amish-American men suspected of killing his wife in 250 years.

During the investigation, evidence was found of marital problems. Frannie, Barbara’s sister, told the police about Eli withholding money from Barbara, which made it difficult for her to care for the home and children. The Weaver children also confessed about abuse they witnessed in the home. Specifically, their father beating their mother. Where does an abused woman go in an Amish community? Battered women almost never tell anyone about their abuse because they would be judged harshly by the Amish community.  

What could lead an earnest Amish man to stray away from his flock? Social media, of course. Eli broke the fundamental tenant of refusing to use technology and got a mobile phone. Using the platform MocoSpace Eli was free to indulge in urges after a lifetime of sexual repression.  Eli desired a life free from his wife, but did not want to get out of favor with the Amish church. So, he made the decision to kill her.

Weaver did not want to do this task alone. He attempted to recruit several partners to assist in the crime, but they all declined. The best opportunity for a partner ended up being a longtime lover, a former Amish woman Barb Raber. A text message trail established the long time relationship between the two, and their thought process for deciding on how the murder would be executed.

On June 10, 2009, Weaver and Raber were arrested and charged with aggravated murder. During questioning Raber claimed that her only intent was to scare Barbara and she did not know the shotgun was loaded. Raber later recanted the story of accidental murder to pin the blame solely on Eli. However, evidence revealed at trial of her purchasing the specific caliber shot gun used in the murder proved to be enough to lead to her conviction of aggravated murder. Raber is currently serving her 23 to life sentence.

Eli weaver brokered a plea deal and was convicted of complicity to commit murder. He is currently serving 15 years to life. The Weaver children are in the care of family.

This case goes to show that even the best barrels have some bad apples.